You can learn a lot about being respectful from those who are disrespectful. In that you learn how not to be or how to improve of what not to be. Respect comes from humility living with very little but dreaming about much more.
So I am learning how to show respect to the disrespectful from all kinds of people like the guy living in the room next to me. How to describe him? A young guy visually he keeps himself well groomed nicely dressed every time I see him he wears a drives cap. I only had three interactions with him one a argument (that I will go into later) a conversation about what we each do for a living. Than in a passing hello from time to time. That is as much as I know about him in interactions.
From what little I know he said he is germaphobe I really don't know what to think of that. Because he is living with many other people in a build where he has to share a bath room. I just can't rap my mind around it.
In the mornings he spend about a hour and half in the bath room I assume he he is grooming himself that hole time. But when it come time that he happens to be done and I had just gotten up to use the bathroom I see it is wet from top to bottom. I quote Forest Gump "that all I have to say about that."
All my interactions with him have been yelling matches when I ask him to do something so simple he give me attitude and throws complaint of all the things of disrespect he does back at me and then one thing lead to another and we are yelling at one another.
I should be better than that even when I try to find solutions for us to get along. So I must respect his disrespect.
So I am learning how to show respect to the disrespectful from all kinds of people like the guy living in the room next to me. How to describe him? A young guy visually he keeps himself well groomed nicely dressed every time I see him he wears a drives cap. I only had three interactions with him one a argument (that I will go into later) a conversation about what we each do for a living. Than in a passing hello from time to time. That is as much as I know about him in interactions.
From what little I know he said he is germaphobe I really don't know what to think of that. Because he is living with many other people in a build where he has to share a bath room. I just can't rap my mind around it.
In the mornings he spend about a hour and half in the bath room I assume he he is grooming himself that hole time. But when it come time that he happens to be done and I had just gotten up to use the bathroom I see it is wet from top to bottom. I quote Forest Gump "that all I have to say about that."
All my interactions with him have been yelling matches when I ask him to do something so simple he give me attitude and throws complaint of all the things of disrespect he does back at me and then one thing lead to another and we are yelling at one another.
I should be better than that even when I try to find solutions for us to get along. So I must respect his disrespect.
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